Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Blog #3


Can serious drinking be part of one’s cultural heritage?


            Everyone grows up in a different household and are exposed to different atmospheres and cultures. Families tend to have certain traditions based on their heritage that is unique from others. A typical stereotype is that all Irish people are drunks. The Irish know that St. Patrick’s Day is a day filled with a big celebration of drinking, parades, corn beef and cabbage, and potatoes. Italians also drink together and have a glass of wine with their meal at night. Sundays is when the family gathers for a big meal, and they enjoy their pasta with a glass of wine. It calms them all down, and the family wishes each other good luck as they all make a toast with their wine glasses. Even though I feel that drinking is part of ones heritage, not everyone follows the tradition. Some Italians and Irish may not drink at all or be encouraged to drink. But for the most part, if you are raised around drinking, you are most likely to follow the tradition. Then you will send it on to your family, and the cycle continues.   

Thursday, September 20, 2012

Blog #2 "Two Kinds" Free write


“Two Kinds”
By: Amy Tan

As I read “Two Kinds,” it really made me appreciate my mom. My mom encourages me to follow my dreams and be who I want to be, unlike Jing-mei’s mom. I did feel bad for Jing-mei’s mother, since she lost everything in China including her home, parents, husband, and twin daughters. However, I thought it was terrible that she expected her daughter to be the best at everything. She wanted Jing-mei to be a prodigy, but Jing-mei did not want to be someone she could never be. Jing-mei just wanted to be herself and not who or what her mother expected her to be.
This short story made me feel fortunate that I have such a great relationship with my mom. I tell my mom everything and she is my best friend. I cannot image having a mother like Jing-mei’s, since Jing-mei could not make her mom happy with anything she did. When High School was about to start, my mom really wanted me to play field hockey and lacrosse because she wanted me to get involved. I told her I did not really want to, but encouraged me to try it. I was mad at first, but I wanted to make my mom happy. It ended being the best decision I ever made because I loved the sports and made so many friends. I was actually a really good player too and made varsity for both sports by my sophomore year, and was captain my senior year. I even got many awards including MVP, Coaches Award, the Knight Award, and I even made the first conference team. It is like my mom knew all along that I was supposed to play these sports. If it was not for my mom, I really would have missed out. It was good that my mom wanted me to play lacrosse and field hockey, but it was wrong how Jing-mei’s mom forced her do everything. If I had a rough game my mom did not care, but when Jing-mei messed up at her piano recital, her mother was devastated. I am so thankful that I have a supportive mom, because not everyone is as fortunate to have a mom like mine!

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Statement of theme for Sher’s “The Man in the Well”



The short story “The Man in the Well,” is about a group of children who find a mysterious man in a well. They do not know anything about this man, and decide not to help him, which leads to his death. Many themes arise throughout this short story and this is how I ranked them:
The statement, “Even in later years, people may have trouble forgiving themselves for bad things they did when they were young,” was ranked as my number one theme. Sometimes it is hard to forgive and forget, especially in this kind of situation. The characters feel responsible for the man in the wells death, and will constantly think about what if they just went for help. Years later they still regret what they did, but you cannot change the past.
            “People need to see one another’s faces if they are to trust one another,” is number two.  The children did not know anything about the man in the well. They could not see him, he refused to answer any of the questions they asked him, and they had no idea who he really was. They didn’t want to help him, especially since the man acted cruel to them, like when he kept repeating all of their names. Maybe if the children saw how desperate his face looked they would have acted differently.
            Next, “Within groups, people may engage in conduct that is wilder, stranger, or more uncivilized then their usual behavior alone,” is ranked as number three. When you are with groups of people you act differently than you would if you were alone. You might tend to do activities that the people around you are doing, just so you can fit in. For example if Grace was alone and heard the man in the well, she probably would have listened to him and went for help. Because she was with everyone else and they decided not to do anything, she just followed what everyone else was doing.
            “Children may have difficulty sharing the perspective of another person,” is number four. These children did not realize what this poor man in the well was going through. They did not think of how mad each of them would have felt if the situation was flipped. They also did not realize of how hungry, scared, cold, and tired he must have been. The man in the well also suffered a terrible death by drowning because of the rain. If the kids were in his shoes, they would have been terrified by the way he died.
            “Children may fail to understand when an adult is in danger,” I feel is number five. In a way, I do not think the children realized how bad this situation really was. Kids are naïve, and do not always notice when something is serious. Plus when children are in danger their parents always help them to make things better. For example on September 11, 2001, everyone who I spoke to that was my age had no idea what was really happening when the planes were hijacked. Kids do not always realize what is going on in the world around them.
            The sixth one I chose was, “We should be more compassionate toward people who are trapped.” The children were pretty rude to this poor man who was trapped in a well. For example on line 32 the man asks, “Are they coming now?” They lie and say they are almost here even though they never went for help. This just got the mans hopes up. The kids were nice when they gave him food. But no matter what you should always try to help someone, especially if they are in desperate need.
            The seventh one that I picked was, “Children are capable of conspiring with one another against the adult world.” The reason I put this one so low was because it really depends on what type of kids you are dealing with. If they are all nice kids, they would not go against what they think is right. In this short stories case it is different. For example, Aaron who is the oldest was the first one who told the man in the well, and lied and said they went for help. He was the first person to lie to the man. After that the kids just went along with it. If there is a leader telling you what to do, people might fear the person in charge, causing them to following his or her orders.
            As number eight I chose, “When dealing with an adult, even a helpless one, children have their minds images of parental authority that affect how they treat the person.” Most children do not like being told what to do. In this short story, the man in the well just kept telling them to get help. He never said please he just demanded them to go and get help. Most kids probably would have obeyed the man in the well, but in this case these kids did not want to be told what to do.
            As second to last I picked, “People project their fears or suspicions onto others, even those who do not actually pose a threat to them.” This I feel was not really a theme in this short story. The man in the story did not explain or express that he was so scared. Also he did not project his fears onto the children, because if they were really scared, they would have gone to their parents for help.
            Finally I chose, “The psychological reality of children and adults is a deep well within themselves that they cannot see into.” I do not feel that this is a theme for this short story. I feel that parents know whom they are, but children do not know yet, since they still haven’t matured or experienced life.   
            

Monday, September 10, 2012

First Post what i want to accomplish

This semester I am determined to get good grades. I want to study hard, but also have time for a social life. I am currently undecided with my major and I hope I will be able to find something soon that I want to do for the rest of my life. My biggest obstacle is probably going to be my time management skills.